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Pre-Proposal Checklist Before Popping The Question

July 10th, 2024

Congratulations on reaching the exciting milestone of considering a proposal! As you prepare to ask the most important question of your life, it's essential to ensure that everything is in place, especially when it comes to the jewelry. Here’s a detailed pre-proposal checklist to help you navigate this significant moment confidently.

Ring Selection

Know Their Style

Take note of the type of jewelry they wear regularly. Are they more inclined towards classic, modern, vintage, or unique styles? Also take note on whether they prefer white or yellow gold jewelry. 

Ring Size

Ensure you know their ring size accurately. You can discreetly borrow a ring they wear on their ring finger or enlist the help of a close friend or family member.

Gemstone Preferences

Determine if they have a preference for a particular gemstone or if they prefer a traditional diamond.

Quality and Budget

Set a Budget

Determine your budget for the engagement ring. It's important to find a balance between quality and affordability.

Research Jewelers

Research reputable jewelers or stores known for quality and customer service. Read reviews and ask for recommendations if needed. James & Sons Fine Jewelers has an excellent selection of engagement rings and wedding bands, making it an ideal choice when choosing a local jeweler. 

Customization and Personalization

Custom Design

If you're considering a custom-designed ring, allow ample time for consultations and crafting.

Engraving: Decide if you want to personalize the ring with an engraving or a special message. 

Insurance and Appraisal

Insurance

Once you have the ring, consider getting it insured to protect against loss, theft, or damage.

Appraisal

Obtain an appraisal certificate for the ring, especially if it's valuable, for insurance purposes.

Proposal Preparation

Plan the Setting

Choose a romantic setting that complements your partner's personality and style.

Capture the Moment

Arrange for a photographer or videographer to capture the proposal, ensuring you can relive the moment for years to come.

Backup Plan

Weather and Logistics

Have a backup plan in case of unexpected weather or unforeseen circumstances that could affect your proposal.

After the Proposal

Ring Care

Provide your partner with information on how to care for and maintain the ring.

Celebrate

Plan a celebration to mark this special occasion with family and friends.

Proposing with a carefully chosen engagement ring is a beautiful expression of love and commitment. By following this jewelry-focused checklist, you can ensure that your proposal is not only memorable but also reflects your partner's style and preferences perfectly. If you need help with any of the above steps, here at James & Sons we are happy to help! Stop by at any of our local jewelry stores in Chicago, Naperville, Orland Park, or Schererville.